It usually happens that you always lean on to things or person which feels familiar. It’s because of your subconscious which tricks you into believing this. That’s why you keep attracted to same kind of energy that you had attracted in the past.
You become more comfortable withit because your subconscious is more comfortable to accept that than something new because it’s safe to do that. Anything new feels like a threat.
Some people often seems to be encountering the same type of people in their life because they fit right into the old patterns and wounds that they had experienced and since they survived that, their mind concludes that they can survive this one too. Hence, their subconscious tricks them into thinking this person is for them just to keep them safe.
You can break this subconscious habit of your mind by simply not having any presumptions about people you meet and training your mind about how every person and their personalities or the way they behave has nothing to do with you.
Self focus is the only way you will be able to create energy which would attract what’s meant for that particular energy that you are putting out, and not attract people or things based on your experience.
Trust me, when you accept the people for who they are, keeping aside the prejudices you have built in your mind for them, life could be so easy and beautiful. It will take time as their is a process for everything.
In our education system, we are made to believe that our memory is our intelligence which is the biggest blunder and people have been doing it for years and years.
The word ‘memory’, ‘intellect’ and ‘intelligence’ are used interchangeably. From what i have experienced, these are to be used differently. Human memory simply means recalling information which have been gathered from past experiences. And the ability to use this memory to solve a problem or draw conclusion is what we call intellect. Even a machine can do that work. What extra are you doing to be called as the most intelligent person in the world? Human intelligence simply means to be self aware and spiritually concious.
When your phone knows about your subject of expertise better than you, will you call yourself more intelligent? Anything that you can do right now, a machine can do better than you. But what it cannot is experience life and touch different dimensions of existence.
Your intelligence is given to you for purpose, please use it and see where you can take yourself in life. It’s time to be less of a computer and more of a human being. If you have this potential, why not make the most of it?
And just like that, question everything in life. Remember when as a child you kept asking question for the most obvious things which you just ignore now.
Many problems arise from making assumptions. If you assume, you think you know when you probably don’t. Instead of blindly accepting things as they are. Ask yourself single most important question you could ever ask yourself, WHY? Only then you will begin to live life.
People tend to remain silent because they have assumed alot of things because they believe what they know is answer and the only answer to that particular question.